fix: a shared resource must be able to release its waiters

SharedResource::acquire() blocks on a condition variable whose predicate only
becomes true when release() hands over ownership. No timeout, no stop
condition. A node parked there was not observing stop flags, so teardown had
no way to reach it: the worker never returned, the pool's join never
completed, and shutdown waited on a resource nobody was going to release —
which is precisely the situation when the holder is being stopped too.

close() wakes every waiter and refuses further acquisitions, and the waiters
leave through ResourceClosedError, which is an exception the node error path
already handles rather than a new mechanism. StaticNetwork calls it on
registered resources at the top of halt() and shutdown(), before stopping any
node, since a node stopped while parked cannot respond to being stopped.

The handover needed care in two places. A waiter woken by close() has not been
given ownership, so it takes no Guard and leaves held_ exactly as it found it;
and release() now skips handing over to waiters when closed, because handing
ownership to a thread that is on its way out would leave held_ true with
nobody holding it.

reopen() is there for reuse across runs, which the persistent-pipeline work
will want; teardown does not need it.

Verified in both directions: without close() the waiter thread never returns
and the test's join blocks; with it the waiter leaves through
ResourceClosedError while the holder still has the resource. 145/145.

include/kpn/diagnostics.hpp

@@ -220,6 +220,11 @@ struct ResourceSnapshot {
 struct IResourceProbe {
     virtual ~IResourceProbe() = default;
     virtual ResourceSnapshot snapshot(const std::string& name) const = 0;
+
+    /// Release every thread waiting for the resource, so teardown is not held
+    /// up by one. A network calls this on the resources registered with it when
+    /// it halts; default no-op for probes with nothing to wake.
+    virtual void close() {}
 };
 
 } // namespace kpn